I used to be a staunch defender of Meghan Markle and her relationship with Prince Harry, but over time, my perspective has shifted dramatically. Initially, as a fan of the show Suits, I was thrilled to see Harry find happiness with a familiar face. However, as the years passed, a series of events began to change my opinion.
One pivotal moment was when Meghan declined to pose on the hospital steps after giving birth. While I understood and supported her decision to prioritize her needs as a pregnant woman, it marked a turning point in public perception. As time went on, and especially after their move to the US, my defense of Meghan and her desire for privacy began to wane.
The final straw for me was Meghan's recent decision to monetize her outfits worn during a meeting with survivors of the Bondi Beach attack. This move is a stark departure from the behavior of a true royal and has left me questioning her suitability for the title. I'm particularly surprised that Harry, who has always been protective of his wife, didn't intervene.
Looking back, I can see a pattern of behavior that has gradually eroded my initial support. From the Oprah Winfrey interview, to the release of 'Spare', and then the Netflix projects, it became increasingly clear that Meghan and Harry were not handling their public image effectively. A recent event where Meghan wore the same color as the guest of honor, despite a black and white dress code, further highlighted her lack of sensitivity and awareness.
What truly shocked me, however, was the revelation that Meghan was earning commission on purchases made through affiliate links associated with her outfit during the meeting with the attack survivors. This move is not only distasteful but also demonstrates a lack of empathy and understanding of the royal role. It's as if Meghan and Harry, despite having a PR team, have completely lost touch with the expectations and responsibilities that come with their titles.
I understand the need to earn an income, but there are certain sacrifices one must make to maintain a dignified public image. Meghan's failure to take a step back and make adjustments, such as opting for an outfit that didn't earn her commission, is deeply disappointing. It gives the impression that their actions are driven by personal gain rather than a genuine desire to support and connect with people.
For a moment, it seemed like Meghan and Harry were making positive changes and attempting to rebuild their image. However, this recent incident has taught me a valuable lesson: some people, no matter how much you want to defend them, are not fit for the roles they've chosen. It's a sad realization, but one that I believe many others are coming to as well.
